My name is Mabel and my story is real. It is sad but true and I don't know where to turn to! I got married a year ago and this is the first time I am talking about the reason why my marriage failed.
I met and married my husband Gbenga who I have known for about 6 months as in personally though I knew him before then as he was a customer in my bank. We got talking and started dating and as practicing Christians, we agreed to stay away from sex until we got married. He agreed though not without a lot of pressure from him but finally the wedding day came and we got married. We travelled that night to the united kingdom so we didn't make love until we arrived at our honeymoon suite. I was a virgin and as expected nervous about having sex but resolved to do this since I was doing so according to God's plan,. I had my bath and wore a sexy nightgown and waited for my husband. He immediately shedded his clothes and grabbed me , he threw me on the bed and tore my night gown...I freaked out and tried pushing him off me. He then released me and then had a talk with me telling me his expectation as regards sex. He told me he had no time for foreplay that he was into bondage and dominance. I didn't understand until he had my hands tied up and had his way with me. I cried out but he didn't stop. He made me go down on him and raped my mouth as my hands where tied up. He made me go up on all fours and penetrated me where I never knew was suppose to be breached ( you do know what I mean) in short he had me through all the openings of my body and came all over me like a cheap whore. My wedding night was a disaster.
I didn't know what to do the next day and he carried on as if that was normal...I couldn't wrap my head around the fact that I have been dehumanized and disillusioned. I hadn't imagined in my widest dream that my holy husband, a Christian would be an animal in bed. In the morning I tried talking to him but he just ignored me. He just jumped me whenever he wants sex, so for one week I was his sex slave. He slapped and wiped my butt till they hurt and ravished me. I don't understand why cos all my friend talk about how they enjoy sex. Why is my experience filled with so much pain?
This was how we went on for one week. We didn't go out for sight seeing as planned , I was just naked all round with my hands tied doing all the dirty things my husband wanted.
We travelled back home and this continued when I reacted by telling him I couldn't continue it he gave me an ultimatum that it was either I put up with his sexual cravings and acts or the marriage is over. I was caught between the shark and the deep blue sea. So I moved out of my matrimonial home. I couldn't continue being a sex slave..sometimes I couldn't sit well in the office as my butt and every opening hurt! My parents tried to understand why I left my marriage but how could I tell them that I married an animal , how could I described what he does to me in the bedroom. People have laughed at me that my marriage ended quickly but they don't understand that I feel relieved though saddened and heartbroken. Who can I talk to about such things.....Please people advise me cos I am being seen as the one who broke the marriage vows by both families.
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Babe, I don't think that's enough reason to leave your matrimonial home. Get used to the type of sex your husband enjoys and learn to love it. marriage is for better and for worse.
ReplyDeleteMarriage and sex is to be enjoyed and not managed. its better you stepped aside, maybe if he truly loves you, he should also be considerate and not selfish.
ReplyDeleteSex is just like food. We like it indifferent ways or form. So my advise is that you learn to enjoy it if you claim you love him. Accommodate him and also tell him your preference. Don't think it is enough reason to leave your home.
ReplyDeletemake she take her hubby go see a psychologist . there must be a reason behind this stupid act of his or she better leaves and start all over.
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