My husband is a serial cheat.....but i still love him.

My name is Bose ( not real name) I have been married for 3 years now and my husband is a cheat ...a serial cheat. I knew this long ago after I married him and I have spoken to him, fought ,counselled him but every time he seems remorseful but after weeks he jumps out again. He just cant keep it in his pants. Well I love him still because he is a great husband, a marvellous lover and a wonderful father. Should I leave him because of his cheating because everyone in my neighbourhood and family knows this his irresponsible acts. He just cant stop. I am really embarrassed but I cant think about a life without him. Is there where he can get help to make him change? I really love him and don't want to leave him but people have started pointing fingers at me in my estate , as the wife of the serial cheat! People have reported him to me, I do care about all this but what can I do as I cant stop him but live with him.
Please I need your advise, how can he stop? What can make him stop? Please help.

Angry Man 1 - my wife is too dirty!

  My name is Ibrahim and I have been married for 2 years and I have a problem or rather I am facing a problem with my wife. I love her ( don't be mistaken) She is actually the love of my life but she is really Dirty!!! She cant keep the house tidy, she cant clean , make the bed nor even wash the toilet. I always assist or rather do this things but that's not right as she has refused to learn and this is affecting my relationship with her, As we keep quarrelling about house chores. Whenever I travel and come back the house is like a pigsty. I don't want to involve her parents but  this is getting out of hands. There are strands of hair and extensions lying  everywhere in the bathroom, bed unmade, clothes strewn everywhere, plates pilled up in the kitchen. What should I do? She has refused to change. Imagine now that we do not have a kid , what will happen when we have kids. Please advise me on how to handle this because am really not liking going home to a messy house! Help a brother! 

Abubakar Audu, APC's Governorship Candidate In Kogi Election Is Dead

 

The gubernatorial candidate of the All Progressives Congress (APC) in Kogi state, Mr. Abubakar Audu is dead. Mr. Audu died of undisclosed medical reasons shortly after the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) declared his victory at the elections inconclusive. The cause of death is not yet determined.

This is so shocking.....well what can we say...Rest in peace.What do you think will now happen in Kogi state...who will be the APC flag bearer or rather who will be the deputy. Does this mean victory for PDP?

Worried 5 - Am not good in bed!!!

    I chose to remain anonymous , I am a single lady in my late twenties and I am not good in bed . As in during love making. I have had several relationship and I know with conviction that the reason why men leave me is because I am frigid  in bed.  I don't know how to move or perform. I don't know what to do. Am scared that this will affect my marriage in the future. What do I do? Is there what I can do to improve my performance or my frigidity? Someone please help me.

My marriage ended after one week because of SEX!!!

My name is Mabel and my story is real. It is sad but true and I don't know where to turn to! I got married a year ago and this is the first time I am talking about the reason why my marriage failed.
I met and married my husband Gbenga who I have known for about 6 months as in personally though I knew him before then as he was a customer in my bank. We got talking and started dating and as  practicing Christians, we agreed to stay away from sex until we got married. He agreed though not without a lot of pressure from him but finally the wedding day came and we got married. We travelled that night to the united kingdom so we didn't make love until we arrived at our honeymoon suite. I was a virgin and as expected nervous about having sex but resolved to do this since I was doing so according to God's plan,. I had my bath and wore a sexy nightgown and waited for my husband. He immediately shedded his clothes and grabbed me , he threw me on the bed and tore my night gown...I freaked out and tried pushing him off me. He then released me and then had a talk with me telling me his expectation as regards sex. He told me he had no time for foreplay that he was into bondage and dominance. I didn't understand until he had my hands tied up and had his way with me. I cried out but he didn't stop. He made me go down on him and raped my mouth as my hands where tied up. He made me go up on all fours and penetrated me where I never knew was suppose to be breached ( you do know what I mean) in short he had me through all the openings of my body and came all over me like a cheap whore. My wedding night was a disaster.
I didn't know what to do the next day and he carried on as if that was normal...I couldn't wrap my head around the fact that I have been dehumanized and disillusioned. I hadn't imagined in my widest dream that my holy husband, a Christian would be an animal in bed.  In the morning I tried talking to him but he  just ignored me. He just jumped me whenever he wants sex, so for one week I was his sex slave. He slapped and wiped my butt till they hurt and ravished me. I don't understand why cos all my friend talk about how they enjoy sex. Why is my experience filled with so much pain?
This was how we went on for one week. We didn't go out for sight seeing as planned , I was just naked all round with my hands tied doing all the dirty things my husband wanted.
We travelled back home and this continued when I reacted by telling him I couldn't continue it he gave me an ultimatum that it was either I put up with his sexual cravings and acts or the marriage is over. I was caught between the shark and the deep blue sea. So I moved out of my matrimonial home. I couldn't continue being a sex slave..sometimes I couldn't sit well in the office as my butt and every opening hurt! My parents tried to understand why I left my marriage but how could I tell them that I married an animal , how could I described what he does to me in the bedroom.  People have laughed at me that my marriage ended quickly but they don't understand that I feel relieved though saddened and heartbroken. Who can I talk to about such things.....Please people advise me cos I am being seen as the one who broke the marriage vows by both families.

I AM BACK AND BETTER

HEY LORI BLOGGERS.......FINALLY , AM BACK !!!
Hi everyone.....it's been a long time we spoke on this forum. Well I had a lot of things going on but now I have settled down to a new job and am back and hopefully better.
Well a lot of things have been going on....and course life goes on. Thanks for those Lori bloggers who still keep in touch through comments and enquires on why the posts stopped. Thank you all for being loyal and I appreciate you all.
I have a lot of true life stories that have been sent to me .....so I will be posting these stories soon...but don't forget the essence of this.....give real life( realistic ) answers, comments, advice's to the stories cos they go a long way in affecting , impacting people's lives.
So stay tuned!!!
And for the other posts on football, entertainment....they sure will be coming soon. Keep a tab with Lori's blog.
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